Life's never easy. If you see that someone does have it easy, then he must be a fool to show it off or you must be really dumb to notice it or not notice it. Cause everyday in this damn world, things are getting complicated. I mean really complicated. Like for instance, I am working in a construction field and as per our ISO procedure, we are to reduce the paper work i.e. by atleast 40% i.e. everything must be done and saved electronically. But in order to reduce this we have to do atleast 60% of the paper work to reduce that same paper work. so therefore, that will be 100% (paper work)- 40% (to reduce paper) = 60% (Paper work) + 60% (to reduce the 40% electronic use) = 120% (Paper work). Whats the point? Heck, i am writing this and its getting complicated for me.
In order to give the document directly from the Contractor to the Consultant. Just hand it over to him with the cover sheet, but nooooooooooo....it has to go thru procedures (procedures made by some idiots who does not have any work and show themself that they have a very important task), make a couple of the paper to approve those paper and then after getting it finalized, you have to make the cover sheet to get it finalized to finally reach an amicable approval. (got lost again)
I am staying in middle east, where things were easy during the initial years and getting very much complicated in the recent times. Most of the people here are great but at the same time, that most people make my life really complicated. I really like my uncles and aunts, but they being that age you would expect them to understand and no how to deal the worst case scenarios. But nooooo, they cannot set an example to younger generation or tell them in a kind way to these young generations. As you know kids or childrens have no knowledge of what they do. They do what they do, cause that how they are. My wife put on some gold bangle on my daughter and my daughter during the prayer time, played with it. After the prayer my uncle started scolding my daughter (which i dont mind at all) and he came and shouted at my wife (which i dont really mind at all) for letting the kids wear them. I didnt see any problem if the kids wore them, but yes they shouldnt play during the prayer time. But for shouting at my wife who really young compared to him, he could have told her in a nice way. As you know, some people takes the advice. Others let it enter thru one ear and let it out thru other, while others grumble and mumble and then there are some who reacts to these. My wife belongs to grumble and mumble category. It will be only a matter of time, before she moves to forth category (action and reaction).
You see its not what happened to her make my life complicated but its the reaction I receive at home that makes my life complicated. I love both my wife and uncle. I can see his point of view and her point of view. I cannot explain to my uncle that my wife is from different country with different style of outbringing and understanding and i tried explaining to my wife to let what happened go from one ear to other ear out. And so the frustration starts to sink in and voila.. before you know it, you can really see that everything around you is getting complicated. And finally you look upto to the sky, this really beautiful blue sky and ask God the only question which runs in your mind. Why does my life have to be this complicated?
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